Dealing with blame 处理责骂(9)

Note: Every week from 1995, Guruji started sending out knowledge sheets which he fondly called the 'Knowledge Fax' to be read out and discussed at Satsangs happening all around the world. Guruji ended this delightful practice at the 365th week in September 2002, so as to let us fully digest them! These knowledge sheets have been compiled into An Intimate Note To The Sincere Seeker Volumes 1-7. I began the practice of posting a Knowledge Sheet every week for the benefit of those who have not had the opportunity to get hold of these priceless books. It had never cease to uplift me by reading and rereading this knowledge. So I know you would certainly enjoy them!

注：从1995年开始， 古儒吉开始每一个星期寄出他称为‘智慧传真’的智慧语录以供在世界各地举行的唱场阅读与分享。大师在2002年9月，也就是第365周结束了这个做法，让 我们好好的消化和实践这些智慧。这些智慧语录已收录为7本书：古儒吉大师智慧语录（1-7集）。我开始每个星期刊登一篇智慧语录，以供还没有机会买到这几 本宝贵的书籍的学员分享。不断阅读这些智慧语录让我得益不浅。所以我知道其他人也会有很大的收获。

When someone blames you, what do you usually do? You blame them back or you put up a resistance in yourself.

How do you feel when someone blames you? Hurt, unhappy, sad, heavy? This is all because you are resisting! What you resist, persists.

You get hurt because you resist the blame.

Know that when someone blames you, they take away some negative karma from you.  If you understand this, you will only feel happy about it.

If you resist when someone blames you, you are not allowing them to take away the negative karma.  Even if you don't react outwardly, you may still be resisting inside.

Actually it's fine to resist outside, but inside don't resist.  You will feel immediately lighter.  You can feel happy: Oh, good, somebody is blaming me and taking some of my negative karma.

The ignorant person says,"Don't blame me" because it hurts him.  An enlightened person also says,"Don't blame me." Do you know why? Because it might hurt you. You can tell someone not to blame you out of anger or out of compassion.

当有人责骂你时，你通常会怎么做？你不是骂回去，就是心生抗拒。

有人骂你时，你感觉如何？受伤、不快乐、悲伤、感到沉重？这一切全因你心生抗拒，而你抗拒的会持续不散。

你感觉受到伤害是因你抗拒责骂。

要了解，当人骂你时，他是在拿掉你的恶业。假如你了解这一点，你只会为此感到高兴。

假如有人骂你，你心生抗拒，就没有让他拿掉你的恶业。甚至是如果你表面上未抗拒，但内在仍一直抗拒着时，也是一样。

事实上，表面上的抗拒是没有关系的，但内在不要抗拒。你会马上感到轻松，感到快乐；喔！很好，有人在责骂我，有人正在拿掉我的恶业。

一个无明的人会说：「不要骂我。」因为那会伤到他。一个启明的人会说：「不要骂我。」你知道为什么吗？因为那可能会伤到你。你可以出于愤怒之情或出于怜悯之心叫人不要骂你。