Love is Your Very Existence 爱是你真实的本性 (126)

Suppose someone shows a lot of love to you, what do you do? 


1. Often you do not know how to respond.
2. You feel obliged and bound.
3. Shrink or shy away.
4. Feel foolish and awkward.
5. Try to reciprocate even though it is not genuine.
6. Doubt the love expressed and ones own worthiness.
7. You are afraid of losing respect because love does not allow distance and respect tends to keep distance.
8. Your ego hardens and does not allow you to receive and reciprocate.
9. Anything else____________________ (Fill in the blanks).


The ability to receive genuine love comes with the ability to give love. The more you are centered and, by experience, know that you are love, the more you feel at home with any amount of love being expressed in any manner, for deep inside, you know :


Love is not an emotion !!
It is your very Existence !!!


如果有人向你表达很多爱时， 你怎么做？


1. 很多时候，你不懂得怎么回应。
2. 你有负担和被捆绑的感觉。
3. 把自己缩起来或远离。
4. 感到很愚蠢或不自在。
5. 尝试要回馈虽然一点诚意也没有。
6. 怀疑那份爱和自己的价值。 
7. 你害怕会失去尊重，因为爱不容许距离的存在而尊重可以保持那段距离。
8. 你的自尊心强化而使你不能接受及回馈。
9. 其他。。。。。。（填充）


能够接受真挚的爱的本事随着能够给予爱的本事而来。你越是稳定，以及透过经验， 了解爱就是你的本性，你就会对任何表达爱的方式感到自在，自然， 因为在你内心深处，你了解到：


爱不是一种情绪！！
爱是你真实的本性！！！