Note: Every week from 1995, Guruji started sending out knowledge sheets which he fondly called the 'Knowledge Fax' to be read out and discussed at Satsangs happening all around the world. Guruji ended this delightful practice at the 365th week in September 2002, so as to let us fully digest them! These knowledge sheets have been compiled into An Intimate Note To The Sincere Seeker Volumes 1-7. I began the practice of posting a Knowledge Sheet every week for the benefit of those who have not had the opportunity to get hold of these priceless books. It had never cease to uplift me by reading and rereading this knowledge. So I know you would certainly enjoy them!
注：从 1995年开始， 古儒吉开始每一个星期寄出他称为‘智慧传真’的智慧语录以供在世界各地举行的唱场阅读与分享。大师在2002年9月，也就是第365周结束了这个做法，让 我们好好的消化和实践这些智慧。这些智慧语录已收录为7本书：古儒吉大师智慧语录（1-7集）。我开始每个星期刊登一篇智慧语录，以供还没有机会买到这几 本宝贵的书籍的学员分享。不断阅读这些智慧语录让我得益不浅。所以我知道其他人也会有很大的收获。
29/11/1995 Bangalore Ashram, India 印度班格罗静修所
What breaks intimacy?
- Ego or taking a position
- Desire
- Taking intimacy for granted
- Finding imperfection in oneself or others
- Expectations
- Insensitivity or over-sensitivity
- Lack of vivek or vairagya (discretion or dispassion)
- Judgments
- Grumbling or lack of gratitude
Intimacy is dissolving into infinity, which brings you to the moment. You go beyond the events.
Look beyond the events, dissolve into infinity, and be in the moment.
This is the way to maintain intimacy.
什么会破坏亲密关系呢？
- 我执及设定立场
- 欲望
- 将亲密视为理所当然
- 挑剔自己或别人
- 期望
- 迟钝或过度敏感
- 缺乏辨识力（vivek）或不动心（vairagya）
- 批评论断
- 发牢骚或缺乏感恩
亲密是在无限中融解。融入无限将你带到当下并使你超越事件。
超越事件去观看一切，融入无限，并置身当下。
这即是保持亲密关系之道
